Sign Language - Bridging the Communication Gap Between you and your Child

Every parent knows that in the early years ofyou are giving them a leading edge in the real world.
parenting, communication between you and your childAs an adult, being bilingual makes you a hot commodity
can be difficult. As a new parent we try to decipherand extremely marketable. Although the numbers are
our baby's cries. Are they hungry, tired, sleepy, lonely,growing, companies love hiring multilingual employees
uncomfortable? It is a constant challenge to figure outbecause they are few and far between.American
what our child needs. What if there was a way toSign Language can be learned in a variety of ways.
bridge the communication gap between you and yourYou can you can go to the American Sign Language
baby? Some say there actually is!Baby Sign Languageonline dictionary here: This is a great tool and it is free!
has recently become a hot topic among new parents.The signs are shown as a video; which many people
Parents and caregivers, with much success, arefind more helpful than trying to figure them out by
learning sign language in hopes to better communicatereading a diagram. There are hundreds of words to
with their children. Tess, mom of 11 month-old Juliachoose from, so you will be able to look up any word
says, "It's easy, fun, and makes communication a lotthat will be helpful when communicating with your child
less stressful for the whole family! Who wouldn't wantin your daily activities and routines.There are some
that?"I have personal experience working with childrenother great websites that will help you get started:
using sign. I started teaching my 2 1/2 year old signs
when he was 5 months old. I am also currently
teaching my 8 month old. I feel it made a hugeare also many programs for purchase which are
difference in my first child's daily experiences. Itgeared towards children. I recommend Joseph Garcia's
fostered communication and curbed temper tantrums.SIGN with your BABY Series because it uses ASL
The way I see it, the less time and energy a childand it is a great tool to help you and your family learn
spends being upset, the more they can spend onsome basic signs. This program can be found here:
learning!Research has shown that babies who signimportantly, as you start out, I recommend teaching
have faster rate in their development of speech andyour child the signs that will be most helpful to you and
language skills, increased intellectual skills and higheryour child as you go through daily routines. Some
self-esteem. A study by Drs. Acredolo and Goodwynuseful signs that you may want to start with include,
found that signing children outperformed non-signingmore, eat, and help. A few others that are useful: drink,
children in comparison, after comparison. Babies whochange (as in diaper) or toilet, sleepy, please, yes, no,
sign have also been found to be able to understandstop, and all done. Once your child has mastered some
more words, have larger vocabularies, score higher onof these important and functional signs, you may
IQ tests, and engage in more sophisticated play.Manychoose to move on to others.Just remember that
experts recommend parents introduce signs, whilesigning with your baby or child is a tool to lessen the
using the verbal label, as early as early as possible.frustration of being unable to communicate. Learning
The earlier you start the more time you will have toand teaching sign should always be a fun and relaxed
learn the signs and get accustomed to using them asexperience for you and your child. Mother, early
part of your daily interactions. Ideally, you should startchildhood educator, parent counselor, and author,
exposing your child to signs between 6 and 10 monthsColleen Newman is degreed in Early Childhood
of age. Do not feel frustrated though if your babyEducation and Psychology. She spent several years
does not sign back to you until they are at least 8 toteaching preschoolers before the birth of her first child.
12 months old. Remember children understand a lotWhen Newman decided to share her love and
more (receptive language) before they candedication to children, her parent education company
communicate (expressive language).Learning or beingwas born. My Baby and More Parent Coaching and
exposed to more than one language is optimal beforeEducational Services, a home-based business started
a child's second birthday. If they are exposed toby Newman, was created in 2005. My Baby and More
different languages during these formative years, theyprovides parents with the education and support of
are more likely to reap the benefits in a variety ofpositive parenting and natural parenting methods such
ways. There has been a great debate as to whatas breastfeeding, babywearing, and attachment
program or type of signs a hearing parent shouldparenting through one-on-one phone, email, in-home
teach their child. Some say use the standard Americanand office consultations, seminars, and classes.
Sign Language, others believe that if you make upNewman is also a Breastfeeding Counselor for WIC
signs you will remember them easier.Personally andand holds a certificate as a Certified Happiest Baby
professionally I recommend using American SignEducator from Dr. Harvey Karp's Happiest Baby
Language because ASL is the third most usedProgram. Newman loves spending time with her
language in the United States. Not only will you be ablehusband, John, while they have fun raising their two
to communicate more efficiently with your child, butchildren, Wes (3) and Claire (1).