| Your wife has left you because of your temper. You | | | | time to heal and if you could put it all behind you and |
| berate her constantly, you fuss and cuss and belittle | | | | start all over again would you? |
| her to no end. So she has left you behind and she is | | | | The counseling centers that help domestic violence |
| never coming back. | | | | could be a start. But an even better start is to begin |
| But ask yourself "Why should she?" You have turned | | | | with your self. Why are you so quick to get angry? |
| out to be the meanest husband ever. Her heart hurts | | | | What has she done to you that justify your actions? Is |
| every time you find fault with her. She can never do | | | | it something she has done years ago that you still hold |
| anything to satisfy you and even your kids are scared | | | | on to? Could it be an old pain from an old girlfriend or |
| of you. Is this the love you promised her when she | | | | previous marriage that she is being punished for? Is it |
| said "I Do?" | | | | hereditary? Did you dad berate your mom and that is |
| The sad fact is that you were not always like this. | | | | all you know? If the answers to these questions can |
| When you began courting her you showed her your | | | | be found and cured then you stand a chance of |
| best side. You were considerate, thoughtful and kind to | | | | winning your wife back. |
| her. But now it has changed and she is gone forever. | | | | But do not bring her back into your life until you have |
| So take a good look at yourself today and recognize | | | | cured yourself of the horrible temper that you have |
| what you have become. Sure in your own mind you | | | | and recognize that she is your wife, the mother of |
| are a good husband because you never hit her or | | | | your kids and supposedly your best friend. |
| physically harmed her and you do work to support the | | | | Win her back by learning to be slow to anger and |
| family, but who ever said sticks and stones may break | | | | quick to praise. This is a learned behavior that anyone |
| my bones but words can never hurt me never met | | | | who wants to can master. After you have cured your |
| you because your words do hurt her. | | | | anger then and only then will you be ready to rebuild |
| The pain that she has ingested from you will take a life | | | | your marriage and win back your wife. |