When to Refer a 2 to 3-Year-Old to a Mental Health Professional

It is a fact of life that some children have behaviorinteract with others, who seems unusually aggressive,
issues and/or developmental problems that affect bothand who can say few words may need to be seen
their quality of life and the family dynamics. So how doby a professional.
you know when it is time to seek the help of aA 3-year-old can do significantly more than he or she
therapist, a behaviorist, or a psychiatrist? Here aredid at 2. By now most can generally take care of
some signs to look for:feeding and hygiene needs with some help. There is
If your child is not meeting normal developmentalmore language ability at this age, so there is usually
milestones, then consider consulting a qualifiedless frustration and tantrums because their needs can
professional. For a 2-year-old, this means they canbe expressed through words.
generally feed themselves with a spoon, can say aIf your 3-year-old is unusually aggressive with
few hundred words, and may try to sing and dance.everyone on a regular basis or shows no remorse or
Behaviorally it is normal for a 2-year-old to haveunderstanding when hurting others, then you may want
tantrums when angry, including yelling, crying, kickingto consult a professional. A 3-year-old has a longer
feet and stamping on the floor, and even someattention span than at 2, but if your child is not able to
aggression towards the person holding them.sit at all for a few minutes or be still long enough to
It is also normal for a child at this age to have a veryhear simple directions, then you may want to consider
short attention span and like to move from activity tooutside help.
activity quickly. A 2-year-old who does not want to