My Plan to Stop Divorce and End the Marriage Crisis in Our Country

One of the most destructive thoughts you can have iscan have a joyous marriage.
that marriage problems are just a natural part ofStep 2: Teach individuals how to find their soul mate I
marriage. Our country can literally stop divorce in itsam writing a third book that educates young people
tracks if we eradicate this devilish notion brought uponwho wish to find their life's mate by using spiritually
us by pseudo healers known as psychologists.scientific methods. It is critically important to properly
For obvious reasons, family therapists who claim touse one's discrimination to avoid potentially dangerous
specialize in helping married couples do not advertiseunions.
the fact that their success rate in helping troubledStep 3: Create a network of specially trained
marriages is below 10%. Could you imagine bringingmediators who offer a viable alternative to divorce I
your car to an auto repair shop that had a successam laying the foundation for a mediation school that will
rate of 10%?offer the best alternative to the family court system.
What has given them power and authority has nothingThe family court system polarizes families that are
to do with ability. In the state of California for instance,already suffering and it invariably aggravates the pain
clinical psychologists who report to the family lawand sorrow associated with a breaking family. My
courts have absolute legal protection. They literallyspecially trained mediators will offer their clients a
have more protection than judges because a judgeviable and attractive offer to stay together by
can be 'checked' through the appeals process, but ateaching the fundamental principles of marriage through
psychologist has no one scrutinizing their work. The oldcoaching receptive couples toward a joyous family
saying that absolute power absolutely corrupts isexperience.
absolutely proven by numerous examples of abuse inEven if our success rate is only 20% (and the rest go
the state of California.on to a divorce) we will have accomplished much. And
My mission is to end the marriage crisis in our countryfor those who must divorce, we will help remove the
for the sake of our children.obstacles of anger and disappointment that prevent
Step 1: Show you how to stop divorce and resolvefuture friendship and harmony. Couples who part as
your own marriage problemsThose who believe thatfriends instead of enemies can more quickly adapt to
marriage problems are a necessary part of athe traumas of divorce that lie in front of them.
marriage are gravely mistaken and end up underminingStep 4: Infuse our nation's school system with a "how
their own future marital successes by establishing ato live" curriculum The current emphasis in our schools
subconscious, negative expectation in their minds.is focused on teaching children how to become part of
Like anything else, when marriage is understood, aa machine called the economy, rather than how to
couple is able to work within its guiding structures.become part of a living entity called our community.
There is no need for grandiose explanations of simpleThe foundation of almost all crises in our country is the
principles; anyone can understand marriage.marriage crisis of our broken families. Only through
When a couple understands the definition of marriageintensity of purpose can we change the current
and how it is intended to be constructed, and when acourse that our nation is running. We cannot leave our
couple understands attitudes and behaviors that workdestinies up to political leaders. We all must do
with, instead of against those principles, the assuranceeverything that we can as individuals and as families to
of a happy marriage is written in stone. Couples whorevitalize our nation by making the family the natural
are suffering with marriage problems must beunit of measure again.
educated to the simplicity and ease with which they