Living a Balanced Life

Living a Balanced LifeMeasure. As Chris Peterson puts it: “What is valued
Our lives are full of stress: we have 24 hours eachgets measured, but what is measured also gets
day and more activities than we feel we have timevalued.” Start measuring your training. Mark a
for. In this age of multi-tasking and instantaneouscalendar with your workout days on it. Keep a journal
communication through cell phones, e-mail, that do bothof your training routine. Build a chart showing your
and more, the demands on our time are relentless.progress. Measure whatever works for you, but keep
These demands have increased our levels oftrack of what gets done and congratulate yourself
stress-related health problems, and as an antidote, thewhen you are doing well.
quest for “balance” has become a popularGet in flow. Foster flow by breaking down each
fixation. In our search for balance, we re-prioritize oursession into smaller episodes, matching the challenge
to-do lists and think about ways to shift our schedulesto your skill set, regularly assessing your progress, and
around. But what is balance? How do we live aapplying your full concentration to the activity, suggests
balanced life?Mihalyi Csikszentmihalyi. For example, if you aim to run
Fields as diverse as psychology, physiology, medicine,a total three miles, rather than worry about the full
and neuroscience assert that physical activity helpsdistance, think of it as three times one mile and try to
prevent and treat mental health problems, increasesachieve your personal best on each.
subjective well-being, reduces stress, boostsUse the peak-end rule. Barry Schwartz describes that
self-esteem, sharpens thinking and improves overallwe remember how much we like an event by how
quality of life. For most of us however, fear of loss is amuch we liked its peak and its end. By managing your
stronger motivator than the attraction of gain. When itroutines so you love their end, you are more likely to
comes to undertaking exercise, the fear ofremember your sessions favorably and therefore to
“losing” time, experiencing initial low self-efficacyrepeat the experience.
and dreading physical effort and discomfort may all. Get good mind fuel after exercise. Exercise facilitates
weigh heavier than the perspective of feeling better,brain cell growth, shows John Ratey, and while your
losing weight, and enjoying increased energy.muscles are recuperating after the effort, your brain is
If you need extra help committing to an exerciseactively busy building new synapses. What you do
routine, here are my top 10 recommendations, basedpost-exercise is therefore essential to reaping the full
on positive psychology, to help you overcome thebenefits of your activity. Capitalize on how potent the
challenge:next hour is by filling up on what you deem worthwhile
Sleep enough and eat nutritiously-sleeping enough and– and avoiding what is not.
eating nutritious foods including complex carbohydrates 
that give pre-exercise energy are clearly part of theMeasure. As Chris Peterson puts it: “What is valued
equation.gets measured, but what is measured also gets
 Get into a good mood.  Happy moods help us bevalued.” Start measuring your training. Mark a
more productive, more active, healthier and morecalendar with your workout days on it. Keep a journal
resilient. These are all ingredients that facilitateof your training routine. Build a chart showing your
exercising. Before you jump in your sneakers, makeprogress. Measure whatever works for you, but keep
sure to add a skip into your step by listening to upbeattrack of what gets done and congratulate yourself
music or calling your funniest friend.when you are doing well.
Use your strengths, states Tom Rath. High on hope?Get in flow. Foster flow by breaking down each
Reach for small, achievable goals that will boost yoursession into smaller episodes, matching the challenge
self-efficacy. Known by your friends for leadership?to your skill set, regularly assessing your progress, and
Focus on the example you are setting for your lovedapplying your full concentration to the activity, suggests
ones. Love to learn? Investigate a new exercise atMihalyi Csikszentmihalyi. For example, if you aim to run
each visit to the gym. There are endless ways toa total three miles, rather than worry about the full
express your strengths via exercise.distance, think of it as three times one mile and try to
Enjoy the burn. Loehr and Schwartz write that manyachieve your personal best on each.
newcomers to the gym only make a half-heartedUse the peak-end rule. Barry Schwartz describes that
effort, hardly break a sweat, and quickly getwe remember how much we like an event by how
discouraged because they don’t feel the benefitsmuch we liked its peak and its end. By managing your
they signed up for. Unless your doctor advisedroutines so you love their end, you are more likely to
otherwise, don’t be afraid to feel your heart rateremember your sessions favorably and therefore to
go up and learn to love the burn in your muscles. Justrepeat the experience.
like some people enjoy the burn of spicy foods and Get good mind fuel after exercise. Exercise
others don’t, it’s mainly a question of choice.facilitates brain cell growth, shows John Ratey, and
Involve your mind. Many people say that training is toowhile your muscles are recuperating after the effort,
repetitive and therefore boring. Keep learning. Onceyour brain is actively busy building new synapses.
you learn more about all the training areasWhat you do post-exercise is therefore essential to
(cardiovascular, endurance, strength, and flexibility),reaping the full benefits of your activity. Capitalize on
you’ll be stimulated to find the most effectivehow potent the next hour is by filling up on what you
exercise combinations.deem worthwhile – and avoiding what is not.