Hearing Our Seriously Distressed Children

How do we deal with our seriously distressed childrenhaving a risk for the development of tardive dyskinesia,
and adolescents?a permanent and debilitating neurological problem
Adolescents are in a period of seeking autonomy and(Gualteri and Barnhill, 1988).
self-determination. These qualities can aid them inThese drugs subdue the adolescent into conformity by
becoming agents of active transformation in their ownblunting the brain, but never do they teach the child
lives. For one to recover from distress they are inhow to develop meaning, how to cope, nor do they
need of being able to regain hope and to have anallow the adolescent to express his pain and emotional
effective exercise of their free will. (Breggin, 1996).distress that is within. The adolescent is merely
Adolescents based on their experiences formulatesedated to make his behaviors more manageable to
thoughts and feelings and begin to create values andadults. The adolescent learns nothing. The adolescents
meanings for themselves.who are suffering from severe emotional distress are
Those adolescents who are suffering from seriousin conflict. They have internalized feelings of guilt,
emotional distress have become lost on this path toshame, anger, anxiety, and numbing. These
finding meaning in their lives. Once this occurs, theyadolescents instead of coercive and intrusive
begin to develop anguish and self-defeating responses'treatments' need the ability to find a safe place where
to life. This creates in them anxiety and despair leadingcoercive power is replaced by reason, love, and
towards what some would call 'madness' (Breggin,mutual attempts to satisfy their basic needs. These
1991). These adolescents must learn to feeladolescents because of their distress have broken
empowered once again, and not to feel labeled as anaway from the accepted realities, they have sought to
'it', not to be viewed through the lens of their particularrecreate their existence, for some a more primitive
diagnosis and categorization they have been ascribed.existence (Schilder, 1952). The feelings of anxiety that
These adolescents need coaches and individuals whoan adolescent may experience are linked to a fear of
will aid them compassionately and empathetically inbeing and belonging (Stern, 1996, pg. 12) Depression,
navigating and negotiating through life's stresses.mania, and anxiety are all linked together and are
The therapist and others must look upon theindicative of trauma.
distressed adolescent with dignity. To look upon theThe adolescent being a shattered person seeks an
adolescent through 'scientific' or 'objective' meansescape by altered perception. We must begin to
leads us to the tendency to diagnosis and control therealize that all behaviors and experiences have
person, to impose our own abstract and potentiallymeaning, even those things that may appear the most
oppressive category upon them and to manipulate the'odd' to us. The symptoms labeled to be schizophrenic
outcome.exhibited by certain adolescents in distress 'may be
Physical interventions, such as psychotropic drugs,understood as manifestations of chronic terror or
restraints, and enforced confinement to mentaldefense against the terror (Karon, 1996). This is often
hospitals or residential treatment facilities are a part ofexpressed as anger, loneliness, and humiliation. The
this desire to control rather than truly aid and come totherapist and others must convey to the adolescent
an understanding of the distress the adolescent isthat he wants to understand, that the client is helpable,
experiencing (Breggin and Breggin, 1993, a&b).but it will take hard work (Karon, 1996). The therapist
Psychotropic medications with these seriouslymust forge an alliance with the adolescent, aiding them
distressed individuals only deal with symptoms, theyto understand the real dangers and to be able to
blunt certain functions to make the person moredevelop appropriate coping mechanisms. These
tolerable and amenable to societal expectations.adolescents are often viewed as dangerous
Psychotherapy, on the other hand, focuses on thethemselves but the majority are not. They need to be
subjective changes in patient's feelings and on actualhard, and forging this alliance will give them the needed
changes in lifestyle or conduct of life (Fisher &voice leading to their recovery.
Greenberg, 1989).Hallucinations that are experienced by the seriously
Based on the viewpoints of biopsychiatry, adolescentsdistressed adolescent are actually repressed thoughts
who are medicated and placed in mental hospitals areand feelings coming outward, the unconscious into the
labeled as improved when they conform to hospitalconscious. Delusions are the adolescent transferring
demands or receive discharge. However, what is notexperiences from their past without having the
examined is, how do the patients themselves actuallyawareness that it is past (Karon, 1996, pg. 36). The
feel? An estimated 180,000 to 300,000 young people atherapist can guide in interpreting the meaning of these
year are placed in private psychiatric facilities. Thesehallucinations and delusions and once the adolescent is
children and adolescents often feel powerless in thesegently approached with their underlying meaning, these
placements. But as mentioned above, it is the need forevents can dissipate. Delusions are also connected
feelings of empowerment and hope that will lead to awith an attempt to find a systematic explanation of our
genuine recovery from distress. Psychologist D.L.world, to find meaning. A person who has experienced
Rosenhan lead a study where 'pseudopatients' hadsevere distress has lost this meaning and thus
themselves admitted to psychiatric hospitals todevelops unusual ways of seeking to make sense of
experience them first hand and report on thistheir experiences and the world around them (Karon,
experience. Rosenhan reported in an article appearing1996, pg. 38).
in the January 19, 1973 issue of Science,The therapist can gently call the adolescent's attention
"Powerlessness was evident everywhere...He is shornto inconsistencies but at the same time respect their
of credibility by virtue of his psychiatric label.vision. The results of a psychosocial approach to those
His freedom of movement is restricted. He cannotwith severe emotional distress has been proven to be
initiate contact with staff, but may only respond tomore effective than the current biopsychiatric methods
overtures as they make. Personal privacy is minimal..."as evidenced by a study by Loren Mosher, MD where
With children and adolescents it is easier to rationalizehe took schizophrenic adults who were on either very
away their rights and control becomes more arbitrarylow doses or no medication, and offered them a 'safe
and complete (Breggin, 1991). Psychiatrist Peter Bregginplace' with non professional staff residing with them
states that in such an environment 'it is hard for a childand sharing in their daily experiences.
to resist feeling spiritually crushed, abandoned, andA 2 year follow up of these patients noted higher
worthless under such conditions. With a less formedlevels of success and progress than their counterparts
sense of self than an adult has, a child is less able towho were subjected to neuroleptics and psychiatric
resist the shame attached to being diagnosed andhospitalization (Mosher, 1996, pg. 53) The model known
labeled a 'mental patient'. Children may also find it muchas the Soteria project was based on principles of
harder to conform to institutional life.growth, development, and learning. All facets of the
They are naturally energetic, rambunctious, at timesdistressed person's experience were treated by the
strident, often noisy, and resistant to control. If a boystaff as 'real' (Mosher, 1996, pg. 49)
doesn't conform, he is considered 'ill' and can beLimits were set and mutual agreements made with the
subjected to physical restraints, solitary confinement,patients if they presented as a danger to themselves
and toxic drugs. (Breggin, 1991). It should be mentionedor others. Such a model could be adapted to use with
that the drugs commonly used for severely distressedadolescents, offering them the need for compassion,
adolescents are the same as those used for adults,empathy, and finding that 'safe' place, restoring within
most frequently the neuroleptics. These medicationsthemselves a feeling of worth and dignity, that will lead
are reported to cause lack of energy, painful emotions,to their ability to address the issues of their distress
motor impairment, cognitive dysfunction and tend toand traverse towards recovery.
'blunt; the personality of the treated patients as well as