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Article #121: Emotional Literacy and Our Life

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We, at our young age, should be treated and promoting emotional literacy is a
by our parents, as well as people around, 'soft option'. They feel that the values
not as if we're little kids, but adults behind the teaching might be more lenient
who have their own point of view and are in the way bullies are dealt with. I feel
able to express our feelings and that when you look at the reasons behind
thoughts. In the same way that we talk bullying you tend to find it is because
about ourselves as being able to read and the children concerned cannot express
write; being literate, so too, we all their emotions. They find the easiest way
have varying degrees of emotional to deal with things is to hit out.
literacy. The degree, to which we are Basically the bully is emotionally
emotionally literate, therefore reflects illiterate.
the degree to which we are able to I would like to examine for this essay a
recognize, understand, handle and project that has taken place at the local
appropriately express our emotions. Just school where I am employed. We had a
like any other type of literacy, some of problem with bullying in our older
us are better at it than others. classes and worked with 4 Year 6 pupils
Schools and parents tend to look at only who had a history of quarrelling and
one part of a child's life. When we look victimizing other pupils. Our main aims
at a child's mental and emotional well were to help the pupils deal with their
being we have to look at the whole feelings, take into consideration the
picture. One of the main factors here is feelings of other people, develop their
the child's quality of life. Services and emotional literacy and learn new ways of
parents alike often simply try to meet behaving and managing their emotions. The
children's basic needs such as how happy children were managed by a senior teacher
they are, what they own etc, but when we who had over 20 years experience. She was
are looking at their quality of life we managed by the school SEN co-coordinator
need to do much more than this. We should and also the head teacher. It is very
be looking at helping them fulfill their hard for a pupil, who is not emotionally
full potential.. Whilst we may think our literate to express how they feel so
child's quality of life is good i.e. they puppets were used for role play, movement
have all of the latest games, trainers, and dance were used for enabling them to
clothes we may actually be lowering this access feelings in a less threatening way
by not giving them enough independence or than through talking. Art was also used
taking their views as seriously as we and the pupils were asked to paint or
should. draw how they were feeling. Relaxation
During reading I carried out an activity techniques were also introduced at the
that involved looking at sources of end of each session teaching the children
emotional and mental stress. Those I ways of letting off steam rather than
listed that could cause ill-health hitting out or shouting. Results were not
amongst adults were - stress at work, expected immediately but as it was some
money worries, bad or broken of the children appeared to be happier
relationships, being a single parent and and more relaxed fairly quickly. We know,
having the ability to be able to fit in as a school that the project needs to be
at work/in your social life. Although ongoing. These children and many others
these were the problems I thought of, after them will need support over a
they could easily be adapted to the life period of time.
of my 6 year old daughter but in a Although schools have an important role
different context. Whilst I try and gloss to play in the development of emotional
over a lot of the problems I may have so literacy, the home is the most important
as not to affect her I am sure she is source of training for children. Children
acutely aware of what is going on. By who come from homes where emotional
trying to shield her from these worries, literacy is promoted tend to tolerate
I and many other parents like me could frustration better, get into fewer
actually be suppressing opportunities for fights, and have greater academic
our children to develop ways of dealing achievement. Ways of introducing
with such tensions, thus improving their emotional literacy into the family would
quality of life and helping them to be giving people in the family choices,
become emotionally literate. letting them be heard and using
As I have mentioned briefly above it is everyone's strengths (even if they are
not only adults who have problems, the youngest member of the family).
children have to cope with serious Being emotionally literate is not only
adversity as well. How they cope with beneficial as a way for children to
this adversity can be linked to the way express their emotions. Studies have been
in which they are taught to express their carried out and one of the main reports
emotions and talk about problems. in this field The Mental Health
Negative coping strategies include things Foundation Report The Big Picture.
like ignoring the problem, blaming Promoting children and young people's
themselves and wishing it away. In this mental health (1999) stated that
situation the child would be keeping emotionally literate children are less
everything in, taking the strain on likely to experience mental health
themselves and possibly harboring any problems in the long term. The report
guilt. also stated that emotional literacy is
Keeping all of these emotions shut up gained from a combination of schools,
inside would obviously affect their parents and wider social networks. The
emotional and mental health now and in point they are making is that due to
the future. A child who has been taught today's environment with children being
to talk about his/her problems becomes frightened of abuse, the fears on our
resilient. They know how to express their modern roads and the fact that the
emotions and deal with the problem. extended family is no longer as tight
Rather than finding all of the negative knit as it once was, children are not
points they tend to look for a 'silver used to making and consolidating
lining' and deal with this in a way that friendships and dealing with conflict as
solves the problem. They manage to grow they once were. They are not used to
up to be happy, healthy and 'together'. taking risks or playing team games. They
Just like 'traditional' forms of see the implementation of emotional
literacy, emotional literacy starts with literacy as a wide scale project. As I
simple learning of concepts and skills. mentioned earlier schools would have to
Teaching children how to listen to start looking at the whole child i.e. its
others, how to empathies (recognize and health and mental health as well as the
understand other people's feelings) and academic side and mental health agencies
also how to recognize and listen to their would have to start making provision to
own is a key factor in the 'teaching' of cover the development of initiatives in
emotional literacy. Children who are this area.
emotionally competent have an increased Emotional literacy is an important area
desire to learn and to achieve, both in childhood and something that should be
within school and without. They are promoted. Teaching children emotional
likely to be passionate and curious, literacy along with the 'normal' literacy
self-confident and stable. and numeracy they are taught in the
In the London Borough of Enfield, primary school and home environment will surely
schools have started up 'nurture groups' make the likelihood of them achieving
for any children showing signs of maturity, balance and a higher skill
emotional and behavioral problems. level earlier in life much greater. In
Nurture groups are special classes and business employees are being encouraged
provide a structured and predictable to work in ways that require high levels
environment. These groups encourage the of interpersonal skills. Emotionally
children to trust adults and to learn. literate adults can be more successful in
The staff in the nurture groups have their chosen careers and in their
backup from the LEA's advisory staff and personal lives.
parents are regularly involved in Children need to be given practice at
informal sessions and discussions about dealing with adversity and taught how to
their child's progress. (As you can see take it in their stride. They need to be
from this example there is a wide network able to deal with the problems that life
of support for the pupil/child. They have can throw at them and talk about the
back up from their teachers who also feelings they have in an honest and
speak and consult with their parents, but truthful way. In today's modern society
on a wider scale the school has back up we tend to be slightly over-protective,
from the Local Education Authority. sometimes justifiably so, but our
Highfield Junior School in Plymouth is a children need to find ways of coping with
school that has introduced a new code of problems and developing ways of dealing
discipline to promote positive behavior. with difficult situations, they need to
Circle time was introduced to try and become resilient. They cannot do this if
build up group rapport, identify as a they are shielded from problems. By
class, the needs and strengths of all promoting emotional literacy in the home
members, offer solutions and support to and school environment we will be
an individual when they have a problem strengthening the children of our future
such as bullying and to try and solve any and hopefully creating a calmer and more
disputes through group discussions. emotionally literate workforce.
Some parents tend to think that valuing






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